Dan Savage – I think the best thing…

I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live…


“I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that’s worth living, one where you do what you want to do, pursue your passions. That way, if you meet someone, they’ll be joining a life that’s already really good.”
-Dan Savage

Dan Savage – My dad was a homicide…

My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay…


“My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate, depressing, sad places run by the mob. The only gay people he’d met when I came out to him were corpses.”
-Dan Savage

Dan Savage – Women can go on marrying…

Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands are Mr. Darcy…


“Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands are Mr. Darcy or some RomCom dream man. But where’s that going to get ’em? Besides divorce court?”
-Dan Savage

Dan Savage – Christmas can have a real…

Christmas can have a real melancholy aspect, ’cause it packages itself as this idea of…


“Christmas can have a real melancholy aspect, ’cause it packages itself as this idea of perfect family cohesion and love, and you’re always going to come up short when you measure your personal life against the idealized personal lives that are constantly thrust in our faces, primarily by TV commercials.”
-Dan Savage