Dan Savage – Women can go on marrying…

Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands are Mr. Darcy…


“Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands are Mr. Darcy or some RomCom dream man. But where’s that going to get ’em? Besides divorce court?”
-Dan Savage

Dan Savage – Christmas can have a real…

Christmas can have a real melancholy aspect, ’cause it packages itself as this idea of…


“Christmas can have a real melancholy aspect, ’cause it packages itself as this idea of perfect family cohesion and love, and you’re always going to come up short when you measure your personal life against the idealized personal lives that are constantly thrust in our faces, primarily by TV commercials.”
-Dan Savage

Dan Savage – Straight couples don’t have to…

Straight couples don’t have to be monogamous to be married or married to be monogamous…


“Straight couples don’t have to be monogamous to be married or married to be monogamous. Monogamy no more defines marriage than the presence of children does. Monogamy isn’t compulsory and its absence doesn’t invalidate a marriage.”
-Dan Savage